Wow, what a fun weekend with some very special friends. It all started off with a spa pedi and mani with a fabulous friend, project ‘grey elimination’ at my hair salon, and then my Friday shower – an after-work cocktail hour confection bringing together some of the fun, intelligent, exceptional women I have met through my recent years in my career. All of them have become great friends.
Saturday began with a nice, long, in-depth meeting with our doulas. Some interesting troubleshooting happening with them, I have to say. Trying to consider all the various scenarios of how this birth will go, and how we wish to handle all the situations that might befall us, is interesting to say the least. I came away feeling excited about the possibilities, anxious about the outcomes, but secure in the knowledge that I have built up a great team around me to tackle all that may come our way. I have a number of detailed questions to ask the high-risk team at the General now that will help me know what is possible from their perspective, and I have some new resources to pursue to assist with other challenges I will have, such as breastfeeding and pumping challenges.
Then…another GREAT shower (the big one!) hosted by one of my longest and most dear friends, with help from a number of other key women in my life. How does one express how important the deep-seated and invaluable friendships are to me? I can’t. I really and truly can’t. Seeing women who have been my partying partners in crime, my sporty supports, my family for a lifetime, and friends of my husband who have become correspondingly essential additions to my posse portfolio all present to celebrate this crazy, exciting and transitory time in my life filled me with a sense of incredible gratitude, and a sense of how truly blessed I am. I love the thought and effort put into making the event special to me. I loved the banner made up for us that can be strung up to announce to the world of our great fortune. I loved my ‘two peas in a pod’ t-shirt that I will wear with pride as I parade around Ottawa shopping for last minute finishing touches to get ready for my little ‘peas’. And I loved the laughter, the stories, the energy in the room. And, ya know…the mountain of presents that kept coming and coming and coming! I will never forget it, and I’m sure that the pictures, sure to be forwarded to me, won’t LET me forget it!
And now? Now, I sit here, writing a blog post, and staring at a living room rife with miniature goods, snuggly things, rattling gadgets and pretty little outfits ready to be washed, packed away or put on appropriate display. I have work to do.
What a lovely weekend. What wonderful people are all around me. What a wonderful life.
I can’t wait to introduce two new lives into the mix.